Kenneth Copeland — Honor Is Important in Business

There is a man I want to tell you about. His story
will help you see just how important it is to have
honor in business—important in ways you may not
have imagined.
This fellow was about 20 years old and had a
good job. He came from a family that had very little
money. He was the youngest child, and there was a
lot of difficulty in his household. He worked his regular
job all day, and at night fixed cars to sell. Gradually, he
began making money.
He finally saved enough so he could buy a
better type of car to restore and sell. He began to
make a bit more money. He was good at his work,
a gifted businessman.
His folks attended a Baptist church in Fort Worth.
There was a meeting at church, and he decided to
go. At the end of the service when the invitation was
given, the conviction of the Holy Ghost came on him
as he stood there. He had a tight grip on the seat in
front of him, trying to resist responding to the
wooing of the Lord.
The Spirit of God was all over him, and he was
trying to keep from going forward and receiving Jesus
as his Savior and Lord. A man in the church came
over, put his arm around the young man and told him
he loved him. He encouraged him to go forward. In
fact, that man walked with him down the aisle.
Before that week was up, the same man who had
led him to the altar to accept Jesus beat him out of
all of his profit on a car. It wasn’t a mistake. He just
skinned that young man in a deal—on purpose. The
older man should have known better. Any Christian
ought to know that you don’t get a man saved
on Saturday night, then cheat him on Tuesday.
That’s wrong.
The young man had a temper. He was angry, so
he rebelled against the Lord. He said he never would
go back to church again. And he didn’t.
He became very successful in the car business,
and eventually had a business that was nationwide.
Then he went into the airplane business, and I started
flying for him. He and I became close friends.
My mother and father lived just two doors down
from him. He liked my parents and would sometimes
eat with us. Mama would feed him and preach to him
and just love him. She would say, “I’m telling you right
now, I’m going to pray you into the kingdom of God.”
He would just smile.
She prayed for him just as she prayed for me—all
the time. She treated him as if he were her own son,
and he just ate it up. But she could not get him inside
the church door. Why? Because of a dishonorable
Christian businessman.
Years later, after I had entered the ministry I had
the opportunity to pray with him. He stayed with it
for a few days, then went right back to the way he had
been. Afterward, he stayed on my mind and heart a
lot. I was praying about his situation once while I was
in a meeting and I thought to myself, I’m going to call
him as soon as I get back to town.
When I got home and called him, a lady
answered. When I asked if I could speak to him, she
said, “He died day before yesterday.”
You can imagine how I felt. I thought, I missed him.
Although I rolled the grief and pain over on the Lord,
something in my spirit would not let it end that way.
I went to the funeral, and the man’s son asked me
to say a few words about his father. So I did. I told the
people exactly what had happened in this man’s life,
what had caused him to be the way he was.
After the funeral when we were gathered at the
memorial park, a woman walked up to me and said,
“Kenneth, I need to tell you something.” I want you
to see God’s faithfulness and honor from what she
told me.
Kenneth Copeland Ministries
Kenneth Copeland — Honor Demands Judgment and Discipline

For if we would judge ourselves, we should not
be judged (1 Corinthians 11:31).
Honor demands that we judge ourselves. Many in
the Body of Christ are not doing this. Many Christians
are waiting for someone else to do the judging. They
live with the attitude, “When I get caught, I’ll repent!”
There comes a time when each of us needs to
judge himself. This scripture says if we will judge
ourselves, judgment will not come on us.
Gloria and I are married in the three basic worlds
of existence: spirit, soul and body. We are working at
and learning about our threefold marriage. She and
I are a solid front, especially before our children. Our
children have always known that if they come against
one of us, they will have to deal with both of us.
We have always stood firm before our children. If
I told them, “I’m going to spank you if you do that
one more time,” and they did it one more time, then
the spanking began. Gloria has always supported
my decisions and I have supported hers. We have
never lied to our children. It is dishonorable to lie to a
child—to tell him you are going to do something and
then not do it.
It is also dishonorable to spank a child for every
little thing he does wrong. Punishment should be
suited to the offense.
When I was growing up, a spanking was a major
event in our house, a serious incident. We would carry
on and on about it. It was a big deal. My father had to
travel in his work and when he came home and took
charge of the situation, it was a serious occasion. But
it was not done dishonorably. We would talk about
what I had done and why I was being punished. We
would sit down and discuss the wrongdoing and the
consequences, then I got what was coming.
Our son John came in one day and asked his mother,
“Mama, do they send five-year-old boys to jail?”
When your child asks a question like that, you
know immediately something is wrong. It turned
out that he had set the grass on fire. An entire vacant
lot was burned. Fire trucks and flashing lights were
everywhere. It scared the daylights out of him! He
was worried about what was going to happen
when I got home.
“Do we have to tell Daddy?” he wanted to know.
“Yes,” his mother assured him, “we have to tell
your daddy.”
I think he would rather have gone to jail.
When I got home Gloria said, “John has something
to tell you.” He came in and told me what he
had done. I guess he figured I was going to unload on
him right there, just bend him out of shape. Instead
we sat down and had a family discussion.
I said, “John, I was present one time when they
dragged two little charred bodies out of an old garage
and put them in body bags. That’s all those little boys’
daddy had left. I want you to know right now that I’m
not going to go through life without you. I’m not willing.
And you won’t ever forget this.”
We talked and talked and talked. Then I did
several things to reinforce the point I was trying to
make—that’s been over 20 years ago and he hasn’t
forgotten it yet!
The Bible does not say spare the rod and spoil the
child. This is the secular interpretation of Proverbs
13:24 which actually says, “He that spareth his rod
hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth
him betimes.”
The rod is not just a stick. It is any type of honorable
correction. The Bible also says, “Withhold not correction
from the child: for if thou beatest [spank, not
abuse] him with the rod, he shall not die” (Proverbs
23:13). It is an honorable thing to teach our children
and to discipline them according to the Word of God.
